How To Get Started/FAQ’s

Client- Interested in outsourcing your dating life to a gay matchmaker

Are you a relationship-minded gay man who is serious about finding someone special? If you feel that a great relationship is a priority, but you’re just too busy to spend the time looking yourself, then you’re ready to become our Client.

Imagine a date where the conversation is easy and you feel understood, you laugh, and you move seamlessly through the evening with much confidence. You do not have to worry if the guy in front of you is at the same point in their lives or looking for the same things.  All you have to do is focus on having fun, flirting, and being your charming self.

Gay Matchmaking Club provides a personal touch from beginning to end.  There are no books to look at, no profiles to sift through, and no salespeople to listen to. Let us do the work for you.

1) Research and Discovery

Just contact us for a no-obligation, face-to-face meeting.  We look at it as a two-way interview. Because we do not offer open enrollment, we use the interview as a time to discover whether or not we can offer you compatible matches before we invite you to join. Likewise, we expect you to see if we are what you are looking for in a matchmaking service.

 2) Matching You and Setting Up the Date

If we agree that it’s a good fit, then we go to work on matching you. You receive brief profiles of your potential dates, and once you and your potential date approves the match, we set up the date for you through our GMC Concierge Service.

3) Date Feedback and Refining the Search

After the date, we give you feedback to help improve your odds at achieving more fulfillment in your dating life.  We are always in your corner and here to listen to your preferences and offer you our expertise based on facts and intuition.



Do you charge for the initial consultation/interview?
No. It is complimentary and no cost to you. You are under no obligation to join, but the initial consultation is fun and informative and you will usually learn something about yourself and about dating.  
How Does the Service Work?
You fill out an application/profile, we meet face-to-face, and we get to know each other. The profile is about you and what you are looking for in someone special. We will then recruit, interview and hand-select on your behalf potential matches based on what you’re looking for in a match. We’ll contact you with profile summary and photo of the potential match. After you approve of the match, we plan the date and time of where you will meet. After your date, we will contact both parties for feedback. Hopefully it will be great news!  Don’t worry, if there is room for improvement, your personal matchmaker will offer an objective perspective and encourage you to stay the course to reach your personal dating goals.
How do Clients get matched up?
It’s a careful, thoughtful process because our goal is to find someone who’s not just a time filler for you, but a great match for you. We want to bring you together for friendship and love and that means we want you to connect on all levels: goals, values, passions, and compatibility. Because we recruit for you and meet people all the time, it’s a very calculated process.
Do I get to see pictures of the potential matches?
Yes, we know that guys are visual based on our experience and expertise working with single gay men.  We know that there has to be a spark and that chemistry is key.  You and your matchmaker will discuss what you find physically attractive in a partner and and we will keep that in mind when finding your match.  We will show you pictures of potential matches and only show you the pictures that we verify are representative of the person so guys cannot sneak in out dated photos.  We encourage you to keep in mind that we are here to find someone compatible with your goals, values, and passions and not let looks be your only deciding factor.  Most importantly, your personal matchmaker will let you know if the potential match looks better in person.
Why should I choose Gay Matchmaking Club over another service?
We know that there are many other options out there, but at Gay Matchmaking Club we believe that we have a distinct advantage because we only focus on gay men and that allows us to work closely and personally with every client to make sure the right connection is made.  We specialize in serving gay single men and are experts in understanding their psychology and lifestyle.  Because we operate our boutique matchmaking firm like we’re friends, you can and should be honest with us about your needs, wants, and feedback. We will work closely together and help you navigate through all of it.  
Do you meet everyone in person including potential matches?
Yes.  We are selective about who spend time with and we receive submissions from new gay singles daily but only meet with those whose applications meet a strict criteria based on our Clients’ preferences.  But prior to making an introduction to you, we thoroughly screen the applicants to make sure they meet the criteria of being fit, emotionally and financially stable, look like the submitted photos and discuss important factors like out status, dating goals, sexual role, etc.
How many matches and guaranteed dates and over what period of time?
Our matchmaking  service is about connections between two gay men who are on the same page and compatible so we keep an eye towards quality over quantity.  But prior to inviting someone to come on board as a client, we will assess whether we have a compatible database of potential matches for you to meet and whether this will be a productive resource for you. We work with clients on a 6 month or 12 month period and the amount of dates clients go on depends on their set of preferences.  
Do I have to be marriage-minded in order to hire a matchmaker?
No.  Our Clients and members are not all looking for the same dating goals but they do want to take the games and guesswork out of dating.  Every gay guy is unique and find themselves in varying emotional and relationship points in their lives so whether you are looking for a long term relationship, cohabitation, marriage or just to brush up on your dating, you will certainly benefit from our professional pre-screening to help you save time and effort.
Is there a contract?
Yes.  There is a contract for you to review and agree to the terms of the services that we have discussed.
What type of guys hire you?
Our Clients are eligible gay bachelors who often tell us that everything in their life is in place: a great career, a comfortable home, a great circle of family and friends.  Since there is only 24 hours in a day, even passionate and eligible gay singles have limited time and motivation between accomplishments and commitment at work, staying active, pursuing hobbies and enjoying time with family and friends to carve out time to hunt for an suitable match. Clients at Gay Matchmaking Club range from 20’s-50’s and hold a wide range of careers as executives, engineers, lawyers, entrepreneurs, doctors and creative professionals any often found living in Los Angeles and San Francisco.  Each Client is unique, engaged with life, has a lot to offer, and just as selective as you are about a match but might be a great match for you.  You have EVERYTHING to gain and nothing to lose!